ENJOYING WITHOUT QUALIFICATIONS

My intention is to frame my attempt at the Boston marathon, in anticipation of and stories thereafter, as something that I have fully earned, regardless of the distance or pace I run. I intend to enjoy all of the pre- and post-race festivities and celebrations as much as possible without diminishing my presence in the moment with qualifications and comparisons to external influences.

After I've congratulated someone on a recent race, I've often heard them lessen the value of their accomplishment by comparison to how they perceive my fitness. This comes across through tone or denotation, and it saddens me. 

Similarly, I now face the same challenge. How can I fully enjoy the celebration, the process, of this week around the marathon, without lessening the credit deserved for my perseverance and dedication in training, physically and emotionally?